The Queer Elephant In The Room

I get the happy chance to go on vacation in two weeks with a bunch of people who don’t understand my identity. My partner’s extended family. It’s been eating at me for a little while. I’ve been stewing over whether the elephant in the room should be discussed. On one hand, I hate having to […]

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The Dreaded Summer

Summer break is looming, and by looming I mean hanging over my head like a damn dark cloud. I have ten days left of peace. The days are spread out over the next three weeks, and I’m dreading summer. Not because I’m the asshole parent who doesn’t like spending time with my kids. I do, […]

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Pronouns Matter!

Gender is personal, it’s something we are born feeling, and something we spend our lives exploring. Gender isn’t parts, or body type, or even the cultural view forced upon us via marketing since birth. I’ve spend my entire life fighting against norms while trying to figure out who and what I am without a vocabulary […]

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