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Writing is hard. Writers do it because we love it. This isn’t a job you can do without loving it, just because of the sacrifice and the...

I try to never comment on the drama that goes on in the genre. It’s not that I don’t have opinions. I have lots of opinions and I’m an...

I can’t tie my shoes. No fucking shit, I am being 100% serious right now. I am partially dyslexic. I don’t talk about it. I don’t bring...

Life changes us. Our experiences change us. Maybe it’s just because of the way I was raised, but I learn things about myself all the...

I want better for myself. I think we all do. I want to hold myself to a higher standard. I have been torn for weeks finishing up this YA...

Maybe we have the idea of mental health all wrong. I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently. I read a powerful twitter...

Holidays are hard. Anyone who doesn’t agree with me might not have lived or loved as hard. Or maybe I was just dealt a different hand...

I like to grand plan. I like to do it a lot more while I’m out in the majestic landscapes with little to no cell service. I like to think...

I hate being misgendered. I’m not sure if all trans people feel this way, but for me it’s like being completely dismissed and people...

Friendship is fucking weird. First off, it’s like saying I choose you to another random human. And it’s not about fucking or procreation...

We writers work our asses off. I know some of us don’t go into an office, or work nine to five. We sit on our phones and no, we aren’t...

My first reaction to my partner asking me what he should tell them was, “I’m genderqueer,” there shouldn’t be a need for more. If people...

Misgendering is an issue most cis people never have to deal with, so it’s downplayed. It shouldn’t be regardless of how hard it may be...